But some blamers have such an intense or abandonment that they use blame as a shield to protect their ego.
I am a christian and I have seeked counsel with pastors who have told me to stay and be a submissive wife.
They didnt see him hitting my kids and beating me in the head and picking me up and slamming me to the ground.
Only after you take some time off for yourself to reflect and be happy, will you realize that it was not your fault.
There are holes in our walls from his rage.
Well 6 years later, and after reading this article, it should have been obvious to me that she herself is a narcissist.
I found out later that he had been telling the neighbors that someone was trying to break in.
So, getting back to the point, I will get myself a full time job back in my home county.